Have you ever wondered why you have times where you feel like you keep hitting a brick wall?

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Have you ever wondered why you have times where you feel like you keep hitting a brick wall?

You can’t get your income to where you want it to be.

You can’t seem to accomplish all that you want to.

I’ll tell you why –

A lack of trust or a lack of action or both at the same time.

Here’s the funny thing about life, about business, about success.

It’s actually really easy to get what you want.

Which means, if you’re not getting it, there’s something wrong.

And after working with hundreds of clients over the years, I can tell you with absolute certainty that the reason WHY is because you either don’t fully believe that you can have what you want or that you’re worthy of having it – or – because you aren’t taking the action necessary to receive it.

I think we all deal with some kind of confidence and self-worth stuff at different times.

Even if we’re pretty confident and know we are amazing, there is still that tiny little feeling in the pit of our stomach that tells us we aren’t good enough.

Don’t have it all together.

Aren’t allowed to have what we want.

Aren’t READY yet.

Aren’t smart enough, or talented enough, or pretty enough, or whatever enough.

You know what I mean?

It’s like we just keep hitting ourselves over the head with “no”.

No, you can’t make that much money!
No, you can’t work with those clients!
No, you can’t buy that car!
No, you can’t hire that coach!
No, you can’t live in that house!
No, you can’t write and publish a book!
No, you can’t create a new business super fast!
No, you can’t launch that offer!
No, you can’t talk about that!
No, no, no, no, no, the answer is no!

We keep telling ourselves no, or worse – we allow other people to tell us no – and so we can’t ever get what we want because deep down, it doesn’t feel like a possibility for us.

We can’t even fathom it happening, so no matter how many times you write in your journal that you want it, that it’s happening, that’s it’s already done – the second you write it down, our subconscious mind is already telling you no.

It already doesn’t seem possible, because deep down, that’s what you believe.

If you don’t believe you can have what you want, if you don’t see yourself as WORTHY of receiving it, you will never be able to have it.

It doesn’t matter how much action you take, or how much you journal about it, or how much you expect it to happen…

If you don’t believe it will be real, it won’t ever be real.

So –

You need to shift your thoughts.
You need to shift your beliefs, of course.
And you need to shift your perspective.

You NEED to believe that what you want is real. What you want is possible. And what you want is something you are 100% worthy of and you are.. know that – you are worthy simply because you’re alive.

With anything that I want, I allow myself to believe it’s possible. I feel like it’s possible. I see myself as WORTHY of having it. And soon enough. It’s always mine.

This is what happens when you shift your thoughts, beliefs, and your perspective and you start seeing things the way you want to see them.

This is when you start chasing your dreams, no matter how far-fetched or unrealistic they seem.

This is when you actually GET what you want and pretty freakin FAST, too!

It’s not just about believing, either.

You have to do the work. It can be easy but there is most definitely WORK involved!

You have to show up every day, and do what’s necessary. There is no escaping doing the work. You can even delegate most of the work – but you, too, will have to do quite a bit of it yourself!

Don’t run away from the work.

Don’t hide from the work.

The action is a requirement. And one that can actually be FUN, if you allow it to be. 

The work means committing to your purpose.
The work means doing the internal (mindset) stuff.
The work means sharing what’s on your heart.
The work means knowing who you are.
The work means loving on your community.
The work means continually showing up, day after day, consistently.

You are the work and the work is you, let it flow. Let it be easy. But also know that it must get done.

I’m talking all of the strategic stuff, too –

Creating new offers
Selling
Connecting with your community
Creating content
Updating your social media pages
Promoting your new opt-in
Setting up Facebook ads
Engaging on social media
Writing emails and social media posts

And let’s not forget journaling! Exercise! Eating well!

It’s all important and it all must get done. Every day. No matter what.

The work must get done.

So, it comes down to this: If you keep hitting that brick wall, and if everything always seems so hard all of the time, remember to ask yourself these two questions:

“Do I believe I’m worthy of this (result)?”
“Am I actually doing the work I need to do to make this happen, and am I doing it consistently?

You know yourself. You know what you’re capable of. And you know that you’ve been half-assing it, don’t you?

Time to knock that off.

Your time for success is now.

Your time to get what you want is now. No more waiting. No more second-guessing yourself and your abilities. It’s DONE.

Are you ready to manifest some crazy good stuff this year?

Let’s do it!

Kellie x

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